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There are ‘magic’ words that you can use to get your ex to return your phone calls. I know, it sounds too good to be true and difficult to believe, but there are certain words that will just about put a spell on your ex and make them compelled to return your calls. Neat huh?…

I will inform you about this beakthrough because this is one of the biggest questions from many thousands people from all parts of the world, that are trying to put their relationships back together.

So, what I’m going to do is explain to you the magic of making up and getting your ex to call you. But, first a warning. In the eBook the “Magic Of Making Up” their strategy is completely laid out and if you use this strategy alone, without an underlying plan you may destroy your relationship even more than if they never returned any of your calls.

Before we get into the actual words, let’s go over what message is wrong and hardly ever will work and much worse, it will put you in a pretty bad ‘psychological’ position.

These fall into two different categories. The pleading category- is when your message sounds like this: “John / Mary, please, please call me. This is the 8th time I’ve tried to call you. I really need to talk to you. Please call me back”

Then there is the emergency type call which goes something like this. “John / Mary, this is an emergency. You need to call me as soon as you get this message.”

So, can you see what’s wrong with both of these approaches? I won’t go on and on… What you really need to use to gain an advantage is to create curiosity and self interest. These are two of the most powerful forces in the human mind.

But wait, here’s the big secret! When you combine the two, you have a recipe that will work just like magic. So let’s see just what you can say that will work almost each and every time.

In a friendly manner try this. “Hi John / Mary. This is Cindy / Bob. I just wanted to let you know I sure appreciate what you did for me. Call me because I would like to thank you in person.”

OK, now you see how that uses both CURIOSITY and SELF INTEREST. Don’t you agree that John / Mary won’t be able to resist? He or she will think.. “What did I do?” “What does she/he appreciate?” And he/she will feel good because it is a very positive message.

OK… Before you make the call you need to do the “Set Up”.. and that is figuring out what he/she did that you appreciated. It can be anything small or BIG…but it has to be very believable.

This is IMPORTANT… You must have an underlying strategy OR, it simply won’t work! Okay? What I am telling you is… what you do before, during and after you get them to return your call is MORE important, than getting them to return your call. Does that make sense to you. Great! Now go out and DO IT. You’ll be glad you did!

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Assuming you and your spouse can agree on some key areas, you may be able to save money on legal fees and handle your own divorce. The Superior Court of Orange County, California provides all of the required documents and an instruction packet that explains the divorce proceeding.

You and your spouse are properly suited for do it yourself (”DIY”) divorce if the both of you:

1. Have been married less than 5 years;

2. Agree about how to divide possessions and debts;

3. Do not have children together;

4. Possess less than $32,000.00 in property together;

5. Owe less than $4,000 together.

In the event that you answer yes to all of these questions a DIY divorce may be a great option. The Orange County, California Superior Court provides a packet of forms for your DIY divorce at http://www.occourts.org/scripts/formsearch.pl?PacketNum=L012.

Make sure to read the Court’s disclaimer: Packets have been developed which meet filing needs in most circumstances. There may be some circumstances when additional forms (not included in the packet) will be required by the court.

If, however, you answered no to some of the items above, it’s most likely time to retain a qualified Orange County, California divorce lawyer. You will have many questions and may indeed require representation. For a free consultation please visit us today at www.oc-familylawyers.com to schedule a convenient appointment.

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Should you and your spouse be able to agree on some essential issues you may be able to administer your own divorce, thereby saving you legal fees and the hassle of battling over property. The Orange County, California Superior Court makes available a packet that contains most if not all of the required documentation required to perform your divorce.

The best prospects for a DIY (do it yourself) divorce are those individuals who:

1. Have been married for less than 5 years;

2. Agree on division of possessions and debts;

3. Have no children together;

4. Own less than $32,000.00 in property together;

5. Owe less than four thousand dollars ($4,000) together.

In the event that you answer yes to all of these questions a DIY divorce may be a great option. The Orange County, California Superior Court provides a packet of forms for your DIY divorce at http://www.occourts.org/scripts/formsearch.pl?PacketNum=L012.

Be sure to pay attention to the Superior Court’s disclaimer: Packets have been developed which meet filing needs in most circumstances. There may be some circumstances when additional forms (not included in the packet) will be required by the court.

If, however, you answered no to some of the items above, it’s most likely time to retain a qualified Orange County, California divorce lawyer. You will have many questions and may indeed require representation. For a free consultation please visit us today at www.oc-familylawyers.com to schedule a convenient appointment.

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